Fault

I have not written in a while , but this time I am writing to one person. James , listen to me. Sometimes when there is trouble at home or one finds oneself in an abusive relationship , sometimes there is this all to strong a tendency to begin to think every thing is your fault. If only you.....fill in the blank. That is a burden that all to many people allow to be put onto themselves. From all my life experience and  career knowledge I need to tell you this important lesson I myself had to learn. IT'S NOT. It is not your fault , it should not be this wilting burden......to carry and warp a life. Self imposed guilt  from those that carry lives as burden is not yours to darken your own potential. I think the 2 most important words in the Bible are......"fear not". So , this is my request , deep breath , face your humanity with all that  is ahead of your young life and remember it is not your fault about everything. That is a structure that does not free you. Peace and love do.